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Wishing You A Purposeful 2021

1/6/2021

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Hey there, 
How are you doing?
How has 2021 kicked off for you?

We are doing well and finding that we are a little more settled despite all that is going on in the world. 
So we are wishing you a centered and focused 2021. 

Below are the various braids we have available. 
We are still collecting books for a few schools in Kenya. We are also interested in any gift bags and tissue (gift wrapping tissue) you might want to get rid of after the holiday season. All of these can be dropped off at My Lil Bloomers in Downtown Noblesville. They are open between 10:00 AM and 6:00 PM and this is their address: 876 Logan St, Noblesville, IN 46060.

Please text us if you have any questions or concerns about drop offs: 7656060777


We will ship the first batch of books in February/ March via Spectrum LLC in Noblesville, Indiana if we do not secure an airline partner that can help us get the books home.

Donations to help pay for the freight shipment can be sent to Miriam Mudenge, our organization president:www.paypal.me/MirryMimu
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In case you need to reach us via e-mail, please write toLHoCreationsNOW@gmail.com.

Also, we have been farming and we will continue growing a lot of the vegetables we need, and rely on, especially in regards to our traditional staples that we can't find in American grocery stores.

We'd love to connect with you about having a green thumb or possibly even beginning to have a green thumb... even if you're starting out with houseplants, get in touch. As we live out 2021, instead of complaining about social distancing and staying at home, we can begin to farm (even indoors) and do something small, but necessary for our planet. 

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PictureHow it started a week ago.
Rotten is one of the documentaries we consumed (lol) in 2020 (lol again). It's available on Netflix. If you ate any of our global meals last year, you ate garlic. I do not like the taste of garlic but i know it enhances a lot of the East African spices and seasonings I use for cooking. Miriam (Madam President) started the garlic journey we are on with a shriveled piece she found in the fridge. As young ladies that were raised in East Africa, we are very conscious about food waste.

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The garlic plant as of 01/06/2021
We did it with the bare minimum, just as we were taught to do when we studied Agriculture in primary (elementary) school in Kenya. That shriveled piece was going to find purpose. All we needed were toothpicks, the lid to a container we were no longer using and water.

We will transplant it to a larger pot this week (01/06/2021) and finally into the soil. 

​Below, we shared more of what is happening across the globe in regards to impacting climate change. You and your neighbours can do something too in your own backyards. â€‹

What are our neighbours (Mexico) doing?

What are Kenyans in East Africa doing?

Take care of yourselves. 
Stay considerate, healthy and safe.
So much love, 
The Empowerment Initiative Team (@LHoCreations)

Let's be social and stay connected...

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Peace, Love & Chaos

12/26/2020

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Why does turmoil exist?

Must we coexist with it or do we simply choose to allow it room? Do we choose to allow it room because we know no different?
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If we are the most dominant species, why can't we evade turmoil? Why do we dance with it every night? Is it really necessary company to keep? Also, do we uphold and even in part, worship turmoil through the systems we keep? Can this secret worship of turmoil then be considered a type of idolatry and dedication to another god other than the Living God they colonized the world through and for? Will He hold it against us?
Better yet, should He?
What are we individually doing to reduce turmoil in the pockets of the world we inhabit?
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These are the things I wonder about, as I add each bead to each piece. 
Some days, God responds, other days, He wonders with me too...
As much as He made us, I think we baffle Him. 
I also think He toys with re-manifesting on earth like He used to, or so colonialism told many of us, so we can try and align ourselves with usefulness again. 

Mankind, we took on freewill but forgot to ask for the instructions on how to apply it to life and now we exist in the often muddy and cycling waters of peace, love and chaos.
Writing and creativity is a vault that hides many secrets. 
This piece can be about various different issues we all experience from day to day in life. 
It's just ink. 
Take it as that. 
Bounce ideas off of it. 
Respond to it. 
Write responses. 
Enjoy it and take care of yourself and those you can in 2021. 
Cheers
​The LHo Team (The Empowerment Initiative). 

You can shop our latest designs, creations and finds by clicking on each image. Enjoy.
​Remain up to date with our latest creations and finds by following us on Shoptiques: 
https://www.shoptiques.com/brands/love-s_hangover_creations
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Fashion Waste: Let's Start Small

12/11/2020

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Happy Friday. 
We hope you are healthy in every way possible as we are typing out this blog.

A lot of our pieces are crafted from what we term as salvaged beads. These are beads that would have otherwise ended up in the trash. Why?
  1. They are spacer beads and are used to lengthen strands of beads by bead suppliers
  2. There aren't enough of them to make a complete mosaic piece of jewelry (a piece of jewelry that only one has medium/ style bead to it) 
  3. We sourced them from damaged or vintage jewelry (we clean and restore them for use before using any of them to create)

We all need to do something about the amount of waste being generated across the globe. This is what we are doing as an organization.

According to WVTOX (the sustainable fashion magazine - voicing the future of fashion),
 fashion is a massive contributor to the 1.2 billion tones of greenhouse gas emissions released each year. 

What are Greenhouse gases? 
For this, we turned to climatekids.nasa.gov. Nasa states that 
Greenhouse gases are gases in Earth’s atmosphere that trap heat. They let sunlight pass through the atmosphere, but they prevent the heat that the sunlight brings from leaving the atmosphere.

So, along with what we are doing as an organization, you know 
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we love to highlight other creatives, makers and content generators that are sharing a perspective that might help inform and empower our choices. 

This week, we highlighted@PrettyAuthenticated. 
She is from Roatan, Honduras and based in Indianapolis, Indiana. 
She shared her seven tips on how to thrift like a boss. Simply click on her her embedded Instagram post to see what the tips are. Hassan Minhaj offered a thirty minute breakdown, based on facts and research, on how thrifting, which is essentially how we create salvaged beads, can impact the amount of waste we are currently producing. The entire episode is available beside our shoppable slideshow (yes, just click on each image to be sent to Shoptiques where you can shop the actual design). 

We also featured some of our left-over bead bracelets below. 
We'd love to hear what you are doing to care for the earth and how you are getting your community, or circle of influence, involved. Otherwise, we wish you health and wellness through the holiday season. 
Thank you for journeying with us, 
The LHo Team (The Empowerment Initiative)

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Listening Circle: German Voices

11/20/2020

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Meet Anastasia: The first transgender commander in Germany's history.#TransDayOfRemembrance pic.twitter.com/xrAuRIMLut

— DW News (@dwnews) November 20, 2020
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We tweet.
We retweeted this story from Deutsche Welle today. We grew up watching DW because our parents became newsholics after living through the 1982 coup d'état in The Old Country. As a result, I like to consume information while working virtually on this platform. This story stood out as one worth sharing in a blog post. 
We tweet pieces available for purchase. We tweet about small biz. We tweet global news stories and connection points (quite a few of those have to do with sports, science and the voices of those that are marginalized). Let's connect on Twitter and continue listening and growing together: Twitter.com/LHoCreations 
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Non Traditional: Being Inclusive Reimagined (Part 1)

10/29/2020

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Hello Beautiful People, 
Today we are speaking with Rosie Allenson. She is the founder of Non Traditional. 

I first met Rosie when she was barely in middle school. I met her with her mother Jodie (she's the owner and founder of Curvy Girl Studio in Noblesville, IN) at a Bead & Tea class we were hosting in Downtown Noblesville. Just as a heads up, we are offering jewelry and cultural immersion classes virtually now because we've received too many requests. Rosie and Jodie happen to be some of the clients I have been meeting with for cultural immersion classes. I digress.

I think Rosie is brilliant and a breath of fresh air. 
She is conscious and ready to work on making her portion of the world a better place. All this will be done while pursuing a higher education program that will allow her to pursue a career in acting, music theatre and business. 
She is open to new ideas and new voices and is ready to listen, learn and apply herself. 

I share Rosie's story today because we are never too young or too old to apply ourselves. 
I share Rosie's story because being inclusive and being an ally can take various shapes and forms. 

Today, we share a portion of our cultural immersion sessions as experienced through literature. 
We are reading Nervous Conditions by Zimbabwean novelist, playwright, and filmmaker Tsitsi Dangarembga. Nervous Conditions was first published in the United Kingdom in 1988. It was the first book published by a black woman from Zimbabwe in English. The BBC named Nervous Conditions the top 100 books that have shaped the world, in 2018. 

We've had a wonderful time reading this book. Not that it has been an easy read, but rather that it has allowed us to have hard conversations. Now, pardon me for a bit while I am me and explain the usefulness of hard conversations as I mean it.

Hard conversations are unpleasant but can be immensely useful for mankind to have because the tomorrow available to others (most of whom would be considered minors or unborn), depends on what we do today as the living. We are all living in "borrowed spaces" or a "borrowed existence" of sorts. This borrowed nature will have to be passed on to others.

What we do, while here matters immensely.
Hard conversations, when birthed from ethical angles, allow for sturdy roots to be established. Those sturdy roots allow for shade trees to be established that we might never sit under but that others will one day be grateful we fought for and/ or established. Our borrowed presence is not a right, but a privilege. We need to be aware of this borrowed presence with the same attentiveness we might give to a tender houseplant that we want to live. 

I take it as a form of worship.
I take it as one of the most critical forms of worship.
So when I gather for these cultural immersion experiences, I am not just gathering for the sake of gathering. I don't know everything. I am open. I am willing. I am available. I am present. I want whatever divine power allowed me life to allow us a space for growth and human connection that can continue to do good long after I am gone. I attend those meetings with the same humility I might tithe before a deity I have reverence for. During those meetings, I am doing work that he/ she/ they might ask me about. 

What we do today as the living, requires an awareness birthed a lot of times by hard conversations. Jodi, Rosie and I have sat down together, shared with each other, taught and enlightened each other as we continue to find ways to establish the shade trees we are actively working to leave behind. 

Are you a reader?
What version of the arts do you consume (especially in these covid times, we are all consuming the arts somehow)... so, what form of the arts do you prefer?
Is anything you consume inclusive and/ or challenging of your view of the world?

We have a tendency to want to engage across social media when it comes to growth, politics, religion and any other major world views. Perhaps, the best place to start could be personally through the content you consume before reaching out to try and dialogue with others. Are you willing to engage in learning or viewing the world from a lens you might not prefer and/ or agree with? Why or why not? 

Happy Thursday and let's keep growing together,
Stay HEALTHY and safe, 
The LHo Team (The Empowerment Initiative)

About the shoppable pieces below: The artwork is from The Central African Republic, Western Kenya and America. 
All the selected artwork would fall under the non traditional banner that Rosie has chosen to embrace and highlight. We have artwork made from butterfly wings (no butterflies were injured), banana bark or people floating in umbrellas. The pieces capture artistic expression in an unexpected manner and we'd love for you to gift a non traditional art piece to someone you love or tell a friend about us. As always, if you have questions, concerns or comments, get in touch. xo. 

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Sustainable Living: It's Everyone's Responsibility

10/15/2020

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Hello Lovelies, 
We bumped into a story we wanted to share.

Traveling with a few of you (to East Africa) allowed us to reconnect with a lot of our East African upbringing.

Being on the ground reminded us just how much East Africans recycle, reduce, reuse, rot/ compost and upcycle.  We are actively returning to our East African roots/ values that remind us: waste not, want not. The saying was a constant reminder in school and at home. If you live to waste, you will eventually get to a point where you do not have. Be conscious of your usage as you are only a visitor passing through these earthly streets. Just as you are passing through, leave a world for those that will visit after you. East Africans are very much philosophical thinkers and we have been for centuries. That's why some of our traditional garb is littered with proverbs and sayings.

Now, as we reconnect with our roots and find new avenues to reduce our waste footprint, we wanted to share an exciting story from IKEA that we thought quite a few of you might appreciate or would like to pass on because we all know that one person that is IKEA obsessed. Remember, we are forever learning, growing and connecting and this felt like a push in the right direction from a big business brand. It felt like the kind of push that might normalize discussing sustainable living ideas. 

Here's what you need to know: 
  • According to BBC News, The Swedish giant, IKEA, will as of next month, launch a scheme to buy back some of your unwanted  IKEA furniture. 
  • Under the plan, it will offer vouchers worth up to 50% of the original price, to be spent at its stores.
  • The "Buy Back" initiative will launch to coincide with Black Friday in order to make sustainable living more attainable. 
This is GREAT news for the planet and for us, as a small social enterprise that was always BIG about reusing, it helps us become bolder about reducing our waste footprint (BBC BUSINESS, 13th Oct 2020)

Our shopping bags and shipping materials are now 100% upcycled. You might receive a jacket you purchased from us in Kate Spade packaging. We're upcycling and a lot of our customers and friends are ready to assist with this decision.

On average, we ship out thirty five packages a month (except over the holiday season and all the way to valentines day when our online orders triple) and if we are doing our normal circuit of pop ups, we have a sale every 1 1/2 -2 minutes. Instead of creating demand for new trees to be cut down so we have enough packaging and bagging material, we've just started collecting from our customers and friends. We're choosing to use what's already available in the community so that we can reduce our waste and especially plastic footprint. This is just one of the ways we are choosing to do our part as an organization. For more, visit this link: "About Us" . 

And we know, it might seem strange that a small business would write about a big business, but we are all winning in this instance. When we all do what we can, we all win. If we were more focused on caring for each other and this beautiful world we share, we'd find there can be enough resources to meet all of mankind's basic needs comfortably. 

Below, are a few pieces from us that include salvaged and upcycled beads/ creations. Others are included because they are eco-friendly. Click on each image to purchase it on Shoptiques and if you need to ask us questions etc message us: +17656060777. And yes, you can meet us to pick up pieces you are interested in. If you don't spot anything for you, please share this blog with a friend that might (sharing is caring). 

So in the future, should you see we've described a bead or finished design as salvaged know that either our suppliers or our team was working to reduce our waste footprint as an organization (contact us to find out how. Yes... we'll go into detail and no, you're not bothering us).

Lastly, we included a video from Ghana highlighting one social entrepreneur that is making bicycles from bamboo and in the process, creating dignified sources of income for others. How are you going to reduce your waste footprint in the remaining months of 2020? Here's the link to the rest of the IKEA story: please feel free to read the rest of the article (it's a 2-5 minute read depending on your reading speed). 

Love yous,
Wishing you HEALTH, safety and enough
The LHo Team (The Empowerment Initiative).  

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Forever Learning Series: Essential but "Illegal"

9/13/2020

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​Do you know how the food you consume makes it to the grocery stores you shop from?
Do you know what farms supply your local grocery stores?
Is it possible to find out? If it's difficult to find out, should this be the case? How can you change this? 

There are a lot of subjects that we, as minorities, discuss in private. As part of our Forever Learning Series, we want to bring those subjects to our customer base. We will continue to present the information under a social ethics lens (this also means I am a heavy friend to have and a heavy dinner guest. I am also a heavy person to consume adult beverages with because I like to reflect and other people engage in social gatherings to decompress.
I just wanted to give a heads up because a lot of customers have actually reached out to dialogue with me... of which I appreciate. I digress).

What do you know about immigration to the United States?
How many immigrants do you know well personally?
How much of their story do you know and understand?
How many other minority group families/ individuals do you know well? 
Do you know who stocks your grocery store shelves at night?
Do you know how much any of these groups earn?
Do you know how many hours a week they work?
Do you know how they ended up in these fields? 
How does that compare with your story?
Do you believe in mission work? How do you feel about those who you might assist on missions coming here to better themselves? 
Have you been on a mission trip? What social justice/ equality issues have you tackled within America? 
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Earlier this year, a former and fellow business owner and I had a lengthy discussion about our roles in the community as minorities that might be looked up to as leaders as well. We both concluded that one of our greatest sins had been silence. It made a lot of others believe, and yes... this was vocalized to both of us on various occasions, that a lot of the social justice cries we see across social media and in the news were made up, came from whiners and were given by those who just didn't want to pull themselves up via their bootstraps but instead might have preferred a handout. We just wanted our businesses to thrive. So we lay low and remained silent even though today, there are businesses I know I can't walk into in Noblesville, Indiana.

Currently, the other business owner stepped down and I turned our business into a small social enterprise because we want to do good as we turn profits. We now fall under the NGO and nonprofit banner (nonprofits do make profits, the money is simply directed to various causes and efforts across various communities selected for impact).

We want to empower. We want to inform and we believe, as an organization, we have a moral responsibility to all our customers and visitors to create a more enriching experience that allows for growth through various channels. 

Please join us in reflecting and do feel free to share what you might discover as you reflect. 
There shouldn't be shame associated with growing and/ or becoming a better human being. There shouldn't be shaming when it comes to inquiring for knowledge purposes (Kiswahili proverb/ African philosophical view). Admitting our faults becomes that much harder when there is shame surrounding the process. Be humble enough to notice your ills. Be humble enough to remember you will continue to make mistakes too. Forgive yourself (and others) and then become better. To fail to do this is to fail to worship That Which Allowed Us being. E. A. Wasonga

PS: We added a video from Insider News (eight minute video with subtitles) and a few sweet deals. Most pieces are $10. Happy shopping and sharing (click on image to shop design). 

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Forever Learning: The 19th Amendment and Reliable Sources

8/26/2020

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I spent years studying the media. We studied how the media works, when the media was birthed, how it was birthed and how it has evolved. We studied factors that influence the media.

My adviser on campus, Dr. Donald Boggs, also spent a great amount of time travelling the world. This is one of his productions: A Ripple of Hope. I was even fortunate enough to meet the woman who cemented those words in his head and heart... be the little pebble that causes endless ripples long after you have disappeared under the water. 

Given that my adviser had been an avid world travel, he allowed me to craft out my college experience with as much international exposure as I wanted (and still graduate on time). He was so dedicated to making sure I had the experience I needed that some of my classes, that were only available biennially and that he taught, he offered to teach me in private in his office when I returned. That allowed me to travel abroad (really, go back to Kenya and enjoy the familiar tastes and sounds of East Africa for a solid seven months) but also, explore my media studies from an African (and also Commonwealth) lens. There, he gave me access to GOLD. I believe a lot of what we are struggling with, on a personal, financial, emotional level, someone or a group of people somewhere in the world already has an applicable solution for. However, we are so busy exercising various versions of selfishness, being territorial, judgemental, unwilling and unfair to release ourselves from bondage. Being abroad for those months allowed me a whole other collection of perspectives, not just from my professors and how education is fashioned abroad, but from the students and the various discussions and cultural experiences I would have missed had I remained in America. 

So, I am writing this now because it's necessary. I am writing this because we need more voices that have different perspectives and we need more voices that impact smaller circles across this nation. 

I realize I live in a nation that I appreciate and that I call one of my many homes. 
Here though, as much as an education and then a college degree determine various factors in life... we forget what all that education is for. It's not just a process. It's a process with purpose. 
Here, history is based on opinions and not researched facts here, in this America I love and call one of my many homes. 
Science is ignored and based on political views and not researched mainly because a lot of times, what I bump into is a lack of know how on where to go for information. As everyone is out studying various fields and going through various forms of education, it is important to birth lifelong learners. 

For all the math I studied and all the science I took in and even classes like art (especially between Kenya and Botswana and my final science courses in my American high school) there was not just here is X, Y and Z... we also spent a lot of time proving and investigating what we were learning. 

Here is an example from my Science and Agriculture classes in primary school (elementary school in Kenya).  
Transpiration: (of a plant or leaf) transpiration can be described as the exhalation of water vapor through the stomata.
"plants lose more than 90 percent of their water through transpiration" (definition was gathered from Oxford Languages)

We not only wrote the word down, we were taught where the term stemmed from. What two or three languages married each other to birth the word. 

We then spent a lesson or three, once the chapter was over, proving that what he had learnt actually takes place. In the case of transpiration, we used plastic bags. We tied a plastic bag over a few leaves on a tree or potted plant for a few days and when we returned a few days later, there would be liquid in the bag that had touches of green and brown to it. We hadn't had liquid in the bag before. The liquid was now there. We wrote what we observed and proceeded to the next subject matter and even took time to ask our teachers various questions in relation to transpiration. 

Education isn't just about stating facts. The more we research, the more we learn about facts. This is why Pluto was downgraded into a dwarf planet in my lifetime and this is also why we (as a human race) discovered that plants could also use artificial light to produce food (photosynthesis). I remember the agriculture class I was in (it was 2002) when our teacher made us aware of what researchers had now discovered. 
​Education should empower us to think critically, learn how to research facts and weigh truth. The moment education becomes about parotting (especially unfounded information), we are then living on dangerous breeding ground.
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I live in a country where the media is not understood, the way I had to take years and years of classes to understand how it works and why it matters. The media, also through it's own doing, has turned into a source of entertainment and is no longer founded on passing of unbiased information.

The media ethics courses I had to take, are disregarded because networks are no longer unbiased and thus exist under the oppression of political agendas and for ratings that bring in financial backing.

This is dangerous. I could list a zillion and one reasons why this is dangerous or I could simply begin to share pieces I think will help those who frequent our platform, have another outlook on matters. ​
I did not realize what role our presence in the community played until I was invited to a dinner where we discussed immigration. I was invited to help decipher what was real from what was not. I was an immigrant. I had become a citizen. They had known me for a long time and valued my presence in their lives. They felt with me, they could share their truth about what they believed when it came to immigration and why the path to citizenship was sacred. However, there were so very, many views being shared across various media platforms and a lot of them were opinion based. A lot of the channels brought in experts and naysayers to shout at each other and had stopped informing because ratings, ratings, ratings. So we spoke about DACA. We spoke about the green card which should no longer be termed as a lottery. We spoke about my life back home. We spoke about international students. We spoke about the path to citizenship and how some were left out. 

We are now social distancing. 
​We have a blog that thousands of you visit (THANK YOU). 
So, here is a link from National Geographic that breaks down the 19th amendment based on historical accounts. It's a five minute read. I/ We, as a team, don't want to continue in the insanity we all seem to be practising. Insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results. We keep barking at each other. Let's do something else. Let's return to the drawing board, as a nation, as humanity, and begin to research what we believe.

We invite those that visit our website to join us in thinking critically. What we research and decide (as citizens of the world) will determine the tomorrows others get to face. That is an important role to play. 
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We also added a few of our dinners, a few of our latest looks so the team and our suppliers can continue to be paid and music that was written by a Ghanaian and Kenyan artists. I never thought music that spoke of our African struggles might ever be used to highlight struggles (even in part) that we would witness and face in The West. Here we are though. 
Take care of yourselves and stay healthy,
You, who is reading, matters to us. x
The LHo Team

For Black women, the 19th Amendment didn't end their fight to vote

When it comes to the story of women's suffrage and the 19th Amendment, two competing myths dominate. The first is that when the amendment became law in 1920, all American women won the vote. The second is that no Black American women gained the vote that year.

Things to consider: ​
(Gathered from online PDF from www.PCC.edu, 08/ 26th/ 2020)
Definition of an institutions: institutions are fairly stable social arrangements and practices through which collective actions are taken.

Examples of institutions in the U.S. include the legal, educational, health care, social service, government, media and criminal justice systems.

​Institutional Oppression is the systematic mistreatment of people within a social identity group, supported and enforced by the society and its institutions, solely based on the person’s membership in the social identity group.

​Institutional Oppression occurs when established laws, customs, and practices systematically reflect and produce inequities based on one’s membership in targeted social identity groups. 
​If oppressive consequences accrue to institutional laws, customs, or practices, the institution is oppressive whether or not the individuals maintaining those practices have oppressive intentions. Institutional Oppression creates a system of invisible barriers limiting people based on their membership in unfavored social identity groups. The barriers are only invisible to those “seemingly” unaffected by it. The practice of institutionalized oppression is based on the belief in inherent superiority or inferiority. Institutionalized oppression is a matter of result regardless of intent.
Does institutionalized oppression continue in various ways currently? Why or why not? How did you arrive at the conclusions you did? Did you use a fair assessment of evidence to arrive at your conclusions? Are there other ways you might be able to view the issue? From relearning the 19th amendment from historical accounts, let's begin to become forever learners that think critically and hopefully, even ethically. 
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Woman by E. A. Wasonga

6/26/2020

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Reflecting is not a sin.
We wrote this piece from a genuine space and to provoke thought.

Sharing thoughts in a respectful manner can provoke reflection and growth.
So this was written so we can listen, reflect and share with each other.

Listening to each other is not a sin either.  

There will be more pieces written and shared through our platform that promote conversation and growth. 

If we do not speak with each other and/ or ask questions, while connecting as human beings (and allowing each other a listening ear), then nothing changes. 

We also wrote this piece to mark days... otherwise it's all just sunrises and sunsets jumbled together (especially in 2020).

We added various dresses that are still available for purchase online. 
Only dresses though they vary in style (may that provoke thought and conversation too)

Happy Friday 
Stay healthy, safe and open to The Universe
The LHo Team
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Forgotten People

4/29/2020

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As people, we have a tendency to forget certain parts of society. We have a tendency to become unaware, whether we mean to or not. I do it. I am sure others do too. 

The forgotten people look different from nation to nation and from time to time. I remember being in university and reading about how older generations sometimes became the forgotten in various parts of the US. I then had to write papers on the subject. I remember presentations from fellow students that highlighted the incarcerated and one time, with a now close friend, sex workers.

A lot of the forgotten make people uncomfortable, so it’s not always best practice to bring them up. We learnt that over one brutal summer with a friend as she tried to impact the lives of sex workers and found the religious institution she called home disapproved of everything she was doing. This broke her and we pieced her back together with beads, silence, music, random fast food visits and a lot of crying plus praying.

The discomfort makes me wonder about what we should do next. Should we discuss the issue or remain proper and in essence, silent? If you only have one life to live, wouldn’t it also be profitable to use part of it to handle some of the world’s heaviness in between everything else you feel you have to do before you die? Discomfort isn’t a reason to stay silent anymore. Or at least, it isn't to our team. 
      

As a child in one of the Eastern nations of Africa, I remember social ethics classes where we discussed those who were HIV positive and how society, at the time, preferred to shun and even neglect them to the point of death. Forgotten people are everywhere. Currently, a second man is said to have been cured of the disease in the UK. Such headlines make me wonder about those who died and the burden of human life. Not that I am God or that I even want to check His work, but sometimes, I wonder about us as mankind. I wonder about how much of a burden we are to each other, to the earth we live in and even to God.

In these social ethics classes, we often discussed why people might shun someone diagnosed with the disease. We discussed the facts of the disease and perhaps why shunning them might not be helpful to society as a whole. We discussed myths about the disease and then reflected on how these myths led to lost lives. As stated before, forgotten people differ from nation to nation and from time to time. It took us a while to get to the point where we now say, HIV is not a death sentence. With the possibility of a cure within reach, it now truly isn’t a death sentence. For me and my ever reflective mind though, this gives me a lot to ponder. ​

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​Now, as Covid-19 has turned into a global pandemic, various groups of forgotten people have surfaced. The other day, I was going through Instagram in between sewing masks when I saw a post from a friend and fashion influencer I have worked with throughout the years. The post was jolting. I think I instantly empathized with her frustration and it also shocked me. I was once again being introduced to forgotten people. People that even I, had forgotten. As stated before, it's something we all do. I have made peace with the fact that despite all the papers I wrote on the subject, I am still going to work hard to be aware and fail at it anyway. 
 

I didn't know what to do so I called her first after commenting on her post. I spoke with her and asked her to record a short video we could share that highlighted what she felt might help those like her brother at this time. I still don't have a concrete solution and that is another thing that bothers me (catches my attention) about us... mankind. We made these rules. Not necessarily us, but people who lived or perhaps ran affairs before us. Why should there be systems we don't understand how to navigate? Why isn't this information readily available? And if we find out the system in place isn't serving our current needs, why must it be such a battle to better things? These are all man-made complications and we are man. As I said, I ponder a lot.

We have a project with a teammate that will allow us to design and create furniture with former inmates within the US. This should roll out in the next few weeks since I've learnt that almost everything we design or bring in tends to sell online. People seem to appreciate our aesthetic and former inmates are a group I have wanted to work with. Why not do it now? I don’t have a plan for Sarah’s brother though.


I have decided that bringing the subject to the limelight, especially amongst those who shop with us, is important. I emcee and craft various cross-cultural events not just within Indiana, but the world. These events allow people to meet and connect with other people who might not live, love, worship or look like them. When we gather and work through societal issues (verbally and otherwise), I almost always hear a statement along the lines of "Hmm, I didn't even know this was still an issue," or "I didn't even know this was a problem anywhere in the world,". 

Having these cross-cultural events has allowed us to see each other, despite our differences. As stated before, I am always quietly thinking about mankind and the burden of our existence and the possibility of lessening our burden on each other, the earth and eventually, God. I feel that when we connect on that human level, politics and other insignificant issues aside, we can finally begin to get past a lot of the man-made and man-allowed chaos we have chosen to exist in.

So, I am sharing Sarah's story. I've tried to read and watch a few more interviews so I can learn more on the subject. Again, I might not have the solution, but reading and listening might help me understand more so our organization can also become a resource on the subject. We are choosing to share because someone might read this and may very well have a solution or even a suggestion that might help Sarah. 

I think the biggest thing for me, as someone who cares deeply about this state and calls this nation one of my homes, is I did not want to be silent anymore. I've styled, dressed, partnered and created for a lot of influential people in the state and beyond this state. Simply calling Sarah to check in on her emotional and mental state, didn't feel like enough. So if you do read this and you do know more about what can be done to help, not just Sarah’s brother John, but others who are serving time behind bars, please get in touch.

​These are the latest texts I received from Sarah yesterday evening and today morning:

04/ 28th/ 2020 4:36 PM: A
s of right now I haven’t been able to hear from him in a week. All we know is that they moved him to a hospital to get treatment and we have not heard which hospital. They won’t let us know where he is only that he’s getting treatment. And it’s been a week.

04/ 29th/ 2020 1:26 PM: I just heard today that he is alert and still in the hospital. They won't tell us where though.


Below, I've added the photographs from one of the projects where Sarah literally saved us. We were booked for three events in three different states on one weekend. I loved why each event was being held and I wanted us to take part in ALL of them. Each event had to do with culture and community. Sarah agreed to take the Kansas City, MO event. She drove for nine hours to meet African DJs she did not know but that put the event together. She produced The Taste of Africa Festival fashion show we were hired to create with our pieces and some of her own (she's a stylist). These are some of the dress rehearsal pictures. So today, I will not include anything for sale. I will share the magic of SarahJintheCity and what she brought to life. You can also watch her IGTV video here: https://www.instagram.com/p/B_iHpaHhDLy/

I like music. Music is always a good idea. I included a song by the late Geoffrey Oryema - Makambo. I bumped into this song on YouTube and I like to listen to it on days when I allow my pondering to ebb and flow without restrictions. ​

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